NavigationTabButton: Use extended border for active focus
In !1522 (merged), the border was changed to only show for active focus.
This MR brings it back for the checked state for contrast for consistency with the Plasma style. In order to show active focus, a border outline is introduced separately. This idea was taken from the Breeze blue ocean mockups: https://www.figma.com/file/gjuIy1rxU9xHkaJXM0pasK/ocean-v3?node-id=0%3A1
Regular state:
State with keyboard navigation (Press Tab)
State with keyboard navigation with active item being not the selected one (Press Tab)
This MR also directly uses highlightColor for the border rather than relying on changing it with opacity.



