Add a "side" field and some sanity checks to wl_map.

The original wl_map implementation did no checking to ensures that ids fell
on the correct side of the WL_SERVER_ID_START line.  This meant that a
client could send the server a server ID and it would happily try to use
it.  Also, there was no distinction between server-side and client-side in
wl_map_remove.  Because wl_map_remove added the entry to the free list
regardless of which side it came from, the following set of actions would
break the map:

1. Client creates a bunch of objects
2. Client deletes one or more of those objects
3. Client does something that causes the server to create an object

Because of the problem in wl_map_remove, the server would take an old
client-side id, apply the WL_SERVER_ID_START offset, and try to use it as a
server-side id regardless of whether or not it was valid.

Signed-off-by: Jason Ekstrand <jason@jlekstrand.net>