"Somebody wants to chat with you" message times out, so you will almost always miss it
When someone starts a DM with you, NeoChat sends a notification about it. However this notification times out, which means that unless you happened to be sitting right at your computer during the 5 seconds when it was visible, you will miss it.
There are two options for fixing this:
- Make the notification persistent, so that it requires explicit user interaction
- Don't use system notifications and display this information in the app using a persistent UI element like a
Kirigami.InlineMessage