Rework parameterized header handling
- Use std::map instead of QMap, we don't need the additional indirection for implicit sharing here.
- Make use of the heterogeneous lookup support by std::map, which allows us to use views for lookups. That way we avoid allocations even without needing Qt's special literal types.
- Use QByteArray for parameter keys. Those are ASCII-only anyway, so we avoid a bunch of conversion and only need half the memory for storing those.
Overall this removes 30% of the allocations needed for Content-Type header parsing in messageparserbenchmark.
This also adds a bunch of temporary deprecated inline helpers for source compatibility which we can remove again once all consumers are adjusted.
Needs !88 (merged) to build.