Summary:
It turns out DRM connectors are not static and may change over time.
This patch refreshes them right before looking for new outputs.

BUG: 419061
FIXED-IN: 5.19.0

Test Plan:
Seems to work better, it's still not ideal but I think there's an unrelated bug
sending updates to clients.

Reviewers: #kwin, davidedmundson, meven

Reviewed By: #kwin, davidedmundson, meven

Subscribers: dalbers, kwin

Tags: #kwin

Differential Revision: https://phabricator.kde.org/D28642