Proper icon tinting

kiconloader supports internal icon tinting, but we used to do that only if and hardcoded color property was set on it. internally it tints with system colors, which usually happen to correspond with Kirigami.Theme colors, but if the theme chanes (ie in plasma is not the system color/palette, or a diffenent colorSet might have been set) then the icon color didn't follow. We already have all the needed pieces, always recolor with a color from the kirigami theme, unless an hardcoded color property has been set