[controls/SwipeListItem]: Always show actions on desktop by default

Only showing actions on hover without a visual cue that they're there is a discoverability issue (have had serveral users complain to me about this) Additionally, the layouting of most users of SwipeListItem has a janky transition when going from visible <-> notvisible when hovering, causing the overall level of polish in the UI to decrease

Mobile isn't affected by the usability or layouting problems due to a different UI being used to present them on mobile