Summary:
BUG: 346222
BUG: 399992
BUG: 356076
FIXED-IN: 5.15

The QML changes make the tab look and feel less awful:
* make the fake window borders stand out less
* add margins to drop area to make it easier to drop buttons on the title bar (fixing 346222)
* change cursor to a non-pointing one [1]

[1] Drag&drop: When dropping, we receive the position of the button being dropped,
not of the cursor. The two can be far (when starting drag by moving the cursor fast):
which makes the whole experience very confusing, as the user means to drop at cursor location.

Test Plan: Tested drag/drop: same (messy) behavior as before, but can now drop more loosely around titlebar items

Reviewers: #vdg, #kwin, ngraham

Reviewed By: #vdg, ngraham

Subscribers: davidedmundson, ngraham, kwin

Tags: #kwin

Differential Revision: https://phabricator.kde.org/D17982