libtaskmanager: Significantly speed up autotest

An autotest updates .desktop files and relies on ksycoca having the updated files.

Ksycoca has an internal guard to ignore file changes that are within 1500ms.

The current test has a broken delay that always expires after 2.5 seconds, hiding the issue but always hitting the expiry timeout and taking a long time to execute.

Instead we can use a hook for autotests to override ksycoca's internal guard.